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ANCHORS:
Since your state creates your story, anchors are vital for changing your state in order to change the story playing in your mind.
Here are some of my "go-to's, simply repeat these (or create your own) out loud or in your mind during times of heightened emotion:

"Therefore encourage one another and build each other up." ~ 1 Thessalonians 5:11
"The Lord will fight for you, just stay calm." ~ Exodus 14:14
"I thank you for the wonderful way that you have made me." ~ Psalms139:14

"I am strong and resilient"
"I am calm and confident"
"I am enough in this moment"


REGULATING SKILLS:
These are simple tools to use when you feel yourself entering a sympathetic (fight, flight, freeze) state.  We communicate and connect at our best when we are in a regulated state, so give these a try throughout your day.  Bonus: you will also improve your emotional flexibility to better handle future adversity.

  • 4-5-6 breathing = inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 5 seconds, exhale for 6 seconds.
  • Voo breathing = deep inhale, exhale to the deep sound of the word "voooooo".
  • M-O-V-E = For a minimum of :90.  Jump, Dance, Shake, Walk, Run etc.  Any physical movement will process energy that will otherwise get stuck if ignored in an activated state.
  • 20 second hug = hug self or another trusted person.  Hug for :20 until you feel a release of tension. Say the above statements for added impact.


BOOKS:
These books are some of my favorites and are available in hard copy or on Audible.

  • Big Potential by Shawn Achor- How to unlock hidden sources of potential in ourselves and others.  In a world that thrives on competition and individual achievement, we are measuring and pursuing potential all wrong.  By pursuing success in isolation - pushing others away as we push ourselves too hard - we are not just limiting our potential, we are becoming more stressed and disconnected than ever.
  • The 5 Second Rule by Mel Robbins- How to enrich your life and destroy doubt in five seconds.  Mel Robbins will explain the power of a "push moment" and one simple tool you can use to become your greatest self.
     
  • InSide Out Coaching by Joe Ehrmann- Provides critical information to help coaches everywhere create more meaningful experiences for themselves and to maximize their impact on the lives of the athletes they coach.

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